My Personal Opinion (“don’t be stingy with your love”).

Welcome to my personal opinion about “don’t be stingy with your love”.

Let’s get into it, being stingy with your love can cause all kinds of problems. It can make a small problem bigger. What someone might have thought was a power play could turn around and bite them in the ass later.

One’s love should never be used as a power play. Either you’re in or you’re out but to use love as a bargaining chip is just wrong.

There are several things that could happen. You can push your partner into the arms of another person. We all know that communication is key but now your partner will be communicating with someone else about the needs that are not being met. Meanwhile you think that you’ve won the game but you have already lost and you don’t even know it.

Being stingy with your love can cause one to have a bad attitude. The last thing you want is your partner to walk around the house with an attitude all day. It makes it hard to come home to someone that is unhappy or bitter because of a loveless situation. Again you think that you have the upper hand because you notice the attitude, that’s what you wanted, you wanted a reaction. Well sometimes the reaction can not be reversed. To have an attitude is an emotional trait. Once your partner has checked out mentally and emotionally, good luck getting them back. 

Being stingy with your love is a physical act. If you wait too long your partner might reject your touch when you’re finally finished playing games. Your touch might feel like a touch from a stranger and lets face it, who wants to be physical with a stranger that they have lost interest in due to the absence of one’s touch due to the games being played such as being stingy in the bedroom.

Another example of being stingy in the bedroom can be holding back on some acts that your partner had access to in the beginning. You used to do certain things in the bedroom and now you stop following thru. You used to give 110 % now you only give 40%. Your thought process is ,well atleast im here and not somewhere else. If you’re not totally into it you mind as well be someplace else. It’s not fair to your partner to keep showing up for your part time loving. Your partner might start to think it’s their fault but in reality it’s you being stingy with your love. No matter your reason , it’s still not good and it won’t end well.

I’ve given some examples as to what being stingy with your love might look like and how it might affect your partner. If there have been any changes in your life physically , speak up. We all will get older eventually. At some point gravity will kick in.

Who you were in your 20’s definitely wont be who you are in your 40’s no matter how healthy you are. Life happens and things are subject to change in your life and in the bedroom. 

To be stingy due to health issues is understandable. Be honest with your partner. You never know they might have some age issues as well but felt shy talking about it. Talking could bring you closer together.

If you are no longer attracted to your partner, maybe it’s time to sit down and have a long hard conversation, but to play games in the bedroom is so unnecessary. If you’re not into it , it’s better to let your partner go.

I know being stingy with your love can be a negative thing but sometimes it can  be turned around with some patience and conversation. If communication with your partner doesn’t work you always have the option of sitting down with a therapist but whatever you do PLEASE don’t tell your friends, it’s not their business.

Thank you for your time.

This is Lady “T” and you’re reading MY PERSONAL OPINION

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