5 Levels of intimacy

MY PERSONAL OPINION

Welcome to my personal opinion about “5 levels of intimacy in the bedroom”.

Let’s get into it, we all like to be loved in the bedroom and trust me there are levels to it. 

I’ll name each level and the breakdowns of intimacy. First level is flirting/compliments, second level is kissing, third level is touching, fourth level is sparks and explosions, final level is the cool down / cuddle session.

The first level is FLIRTING/COMPLIMENTS. I know it seems mighty small but it is major. It’s nothing more important than flirting. That comes with a look, a wink plus a smile. It’s something about a compliment that will make you tingly on the inside. You know the feeling when he gives you the compliment but it comes with some heavy flirting or when she keeps on bending over in front of you. The times when she ask you to get something that’s high on the shelf knowing that the foot stool is right there just so she can watch you flex and reach or she’ll ask you to open the jar of pickles where the lid is not that tight. Then she’ll say YOU’RE SO STRONG !!!!! How about when it’s ladies night with your girlfriends and he just won’t leave you alone. You end up being late but you made it. Your girlfriends already know the deal.

Flirting and compliments go a long way and you don’t want to start anything in the bedroom without level one. So get your flirt on so you can get to level two.

The second level is KISSING. There is nothing better then a great awesome amazing mind blowing kiss. The kind that makes you want to go back for more. You know when you stroke his face and he grabs you around the waist. The part when you pull him close to you and you feel as if you are one. The kind of kiss where you need to keep chapstick on standby. Kissing is the greatest especially if you and your significant other are kissing like it’s a kissing contest. It’s nothing better than a kiss that makes you weak at the knees. Even the small kisses on certain areas will send your soaring. A kiss on the neck will make her bad day disappear. Nibble on his ear lob and see what happens. Kissing is so important. It’s been said that kissing is healthy. So keep kissing as if your life depends on it. 

The third level of intimacy in the bedroom is TOUCHING. It’s nothing like being touched in all your weak spots. Sometimes those touches arrive with the flirting and sometimes with the kissing. Touching is sacred so you better do it right. This is the part where you get to push each other’s limits. How much can he take before giving in completely? You know that if you start massaging his shoulders and rubbing his back that your man will melt. It’s nothing better then someone coming up behind you and just start rubbing on you while giving you a compliment and then planting a little kiss on you meanwhile never letting you go. Ladies, guys like to be held from behind too. Touching is key, it really does relax your body when done right. It allows you to set the pace for the next level of intimacy in the bedroom.

We all enjoy the fourth level of intimacy, SPARKS & EXPLOSIONS. It’s nothing like the 4th of July in the bedroom, all the excitement that will wake up the household and the neighbors. It’s so much fun especially when there is creativity in the bedroom. It’s important to keep it spicy and playful. Pay attention to your partner and read their body language. Do all the things that got you here, the flirting , the compliments, the kissing, the touching. Go for it, don’t stop, not until someone passes out. This is when you just let go and release. Just make sure you are fully hydrated and that no one gets hurt. It’s ok to come with your own party supplies if you know what I’m saying. Toys are fun for both parties. Don’t be shy, there is no judgement here. We are here for a good time and a long time if you pace yourself. The important thing is to finish at the same time. You always want to make sure that your partner is completely satisfied. Congratulations on your sparks and explosions !!!!!!!

The final stage of intimacy is the COOL DOWN / CUDDLE SESSION. This is the time when you appreciate your partner the most. It’s nothing better then being held after several episodes of losing your soul. Being held and snuggled is so important. Skin to skin not only works for babies but it works for adults as well. The power behind a great cuddle is unmatched. Big spoon, little spoon, entangled legs,inhaling each other’s scent is a priceless situation that we all look for after having a great episode of sparks and explosions. So cool down and get your cuddle session on.

Just remember to take your time and you’ll be fine.These 5 levels are here to help you. 

Thank you for your time.

This is Lady “T” and you’re reading MY PERSONAL OPINION

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